Sunday, December 16, 2012

9 dumbest gay marriage comparisons

Thanks to huffingtonpost for this lovely article, now I shall have some things to say, which of course I have had already addressed a few before, I’ll address them and the new stupidest comparizons the homophobes had mad.

1)      The civil war.

Really? The civil war? You’re saying that when civil war had happened eons ago, that gay marriage will cause another civil war? Really? Sen. Lindsey Graham (R-SC) believes that people would handle marriage like they had eliminated slavery. Ok, where did this idiot get that idea? If that were to be true, then wouldn’t Netherlands be at war with itself too? What about Norway or Sweden? How about Canada? Oh, and considering that we have legalized maybe 8 states now, we hadn’t seen anything that’ll turn into a civil war. Lindsey, go back to school.

      2)      Murder

This Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia believes that by no longer have feelings against gays and lesbians, we should no longer feel the same against murders or some horrible stuff. Antonin, allow me to reeducate your pea-sized brain; homosexuality is the same as heterosexuality. To try comparing love to murder or rape is completely asinine and makes absolutely no sense. I bet you don’t even know exactly what you’re talking about. I bet you just read your religious book and think murder is just the same as with loving someone. You’re an idiot and I am not going to apologize for it. You too need an education. I’m sad to look at this man old enough to be my grandfather and yet dumber than a 15 year old schoolyard bully.

3)      Incest

Bob Vander Pleats, president of the family leader thinks that by marrying two men together, why not allow a dad to marry his daughter. Ok Bob, you do realize that in many of the states that allowed marriage to first cousins right? That is about as incestuous as you can get. Remember, that happened long before gay marriage. Also, that is a stupid slippery slope argument; allowing gays and lesbians to marry will not and had not open doors to incest. It hadn’t happened for years!

4)      Slavery

Cardinal Keith O’Brien, leader of the Catholic Church in Scotland, thinks that by allowing gays to marry, they’ll be forced to have gay marriage. He thinks that if the government had legalized slavery, but assured no one would be forced to keep a slave. Ok, Keith, you need an education too. Why exactly would allowing marriage equality be any of your concern? Nothing is ever going to be forced onto you, you don’t have to marry the same sex, you can go on with your pathetic bigot life. Oh and I can see that you’re a catholic priest and I just sure hope you don’t like little altar boys.

5)      Bestiality

Another lovely slippery slope. An Australian Senator Cory Bernardi thinks gay marriage wouldopen doors to bestiality. Ok, as I said about incest, there had been folks who do that long before gay marriage had existed and no, it will not open door to it. Incest and bestiality cannot work as with hetero and homosexual marriage can.

6)      Polygamy

Rick Santorum thinks gay marriage would lead tom polygamy. Well one thing we know about frothy mix is that he has no brain. Polygamy has had happened long before gay marriage. It’s not going to happen because of gay marriage.

7)      Hitler

Minnesota Pastor Rev. Brad Brandon compares allowing gay marriage to Hitler’s regime in the world war 2. Brad is so pathetically dumb I just feel that the world had lost hope with humanity. He believes that because Hitler took away two fundamentalist rights from a group of people to suppress them. Wow Brad, you think gay marriage would take away rights from groups of people? That is the most stupid thing I had ever heard. NO rights will ever be taken away when another group of people have been given the same rights as you do. You are the Hitler because YOU want to take the fundamental right from certain group of people from having the same rights as you do. Shall I get a black permanent marker and scribble a Hitler mustache on you? PS, Hitler was a Catholic who had attacked Gays, Jews, Gypsies, Disabled, and more in the name of your god.

8)      Beer

Really Rick Santorum? He is so deeply obsessed with gay marriage I am willing to bet that he has a stash of gay porn magazines hidden somewhere at home. He tries to say that marriage is like a water and beer, as he had said about paper towel and napkin. Rick? You really have no clue what you’re talking about. Your analogies made no sense! Please, go back to your gay porn and shut up already.
9)      Paganism

Really Newt Gingrich? Really? You, the man who married several times, believe that gay marriage is like paganism? He believes that gay marriage is a violation to our society. Ok Newt, point to me where civilization has fallen in the countries where gay marriage has been legalized. You can’t find one? That’s because there isn’t one.

Saturday, December 15, 2012

The shooting in Connecticut





I am deeply at a loss when I heard about the shooting in the school in Connecticut. The shooter, who I refuse to name, has murdered 20 children and 7 adults. I have read that there have been teachers who have saved the lives of many children and had given their life. They are truly heroic when they protected the children because many more children’s lives would have been gone.


I wish to pay my respect for the families who lost their loved ones. It is truly devastating and it makes me grieve for them.


We do not know much about the shooter or his motive. What we did know was that his mother bought assault weapons and her son used them against her and went to the elementary school to kill. I could never understand what goes into that monster’s mind?


While we grieve for the families and the victims, I want to address a few issue concerning those who said “put God back in school” and proclaiming that this would not have happened had they had prayers and bibles in class. I can’t fathom how stupid this sounds. If you honestly believe that the Bible and prayer could have stopped the shooting, then explain to me how your god didn’t stop the shooting in Aurora theater in Colorado? Was the god not welcome in theaters either? What about the churches, which your God is mostly praised and worshiped, where there’s prayers and bibles all over the church, which happens to be where kids get abused by priests or pastors.

When you tell me that your God was not allowed in school which is the result of the shooting, I wondered exactly how much thought you put into this or that you were just listening to some people who have no idea what they’re talking about, because your god, the god who is all-powerful, all-knowing, all-loving, could have stopped the shooting anyway. Your god could have stopped anyone from going to the school with a gun. Your god could have stopped pastors or priests from abusing a child. Your god could have stopped any parents who would kill their own child. Your god could have stopped a kidnapper before he or she could have snatched a child from the playground.

You might think I am attacking your god. I am not, I’m attacking your bullshit statement. I don’t know about anyone here who reads this, but I am sick of the “put god back” crap. Your god was not gone, your god was not banned from anything, and it’s our responsibility to take care of the affairs here.You see, it doesn’t matter to me whether or not god exists, what matters is that we have to take responsibilities for ourselves to take care of the issues. We need to stop with the blame, stop pointing fingers, and work together to find solutions that can work!


Do I believe that gun control laws work or not? What I see is that there is no sure fire way to solving the problem. You may think that gun control laws works, and in some ways, gun control laws doesn’t. It’s not all black and white. I think we need to found a way that can be used with common sense, logic, and even reason. We need to put our heads together and find a way to help solve the problem of gun violence and more. I want there to be no gun violence as much as anyone else. I don’t believe that gun advocates are gun-loving, crazed folks who would be irresponsible, nor do I think that anti-gun folks were stupid, paranoid ‘fraidy cats either. Both sides have valid points that we need to look at and work our way through with them.

I don’t believe that stricter gun laws would work, because criminals do not obey laws and even if you remove the guns, there are those who would use whatever necessary to kill another; bombs, fire, poison, and more. Why are there some folks so persistent on killing people? I don’t have the answer, but I do know that some folks are without capacity for empathy.

I do think that citing the amendment sounds a lot like quoting the bible verse. It’s best not to go, “Well it said so here, so…” I prefer that we think for ourselves and look at the information we can gather.


Right now, let us give respect to the families and the victims in the Connecticut.

Friday, November 23, 2012

Look deep into my heart.

This was a story i've done many years ago, i had completely forgotten about it. It's not perfect though, but it's something i want to share.

Look deep into my heart.


            “I don’t dance.”  Keiji spoke. He is standing against the wall to his back, looking chaste and quiet. He has a medium raven hair, and the several strands fell over his black piercing eyes. He’s thin and lanky. His face makes many girls screams with delight at the sight of him. But he doesn’t like any of them.

            “I don’t dance.’ He said to the girls again. He feels as if they couldn’t get the message through their damn skulls. But the bustle of girls still fawns over him. Couple of guys looked at him with anger and jealousy. He hated this. He hated everyone.

            He walks off past the girls and gets up on the elevator, he closed the doors on the girls who followed him. He got off the elevator at the first floor and meets a teacher who’s in front of the elevator.

            “Keiji, why aren’t you upstairs dancing?”

            Keiji grits his teeth, looks away, “I don’t want to dance.” He tries walking off, but the girls finally caught up, Keiji turns the other way and makes a break for it. The teacher looks bewildered as the girls chased him down. The second teacher came up

            “What has got into these kids these days?”

            Keiji jumped up into the tree and climbed to the top. He was breathing hard and watched the girls search for him on the grounds. He was shaking and tears began falling to his face.

            As the girls gave up on their search, they went back to the school. Keiji waited minutes after minutes to be sure they’re really gone. Finally, the last girl walked back slumped and greatly upset. Keiji gave a feeble smile and mentally send his prayer of thanks to the higher being.


            Keiji didn’t went back to the school, instead he went back to his apartment. The whole reason he went to that school dance was because his friend begged him. He couldn’t believe he agreed to. He jumped into the shower and started to think deeply as the water trickles all over him. His hand gave a few quirks and then he stayed there for a short while.

            When the day came, Keiji stayed in his bed never wanting to get up. He laid there in his black and white long sleeve and black pajama pants. He opened his eyes and stared at the ceiling. He feel safe in his own room, safe from the world.

            Keiji walked down outside of his complex thinking about what to do. He had a grey hoodie jacket and a black cargo pants. He covered his face as if he were ashamed of his beautiful face. He feels people would never see him anything but a heart throb hunk. He wondered if the beautiful people ever gets the feeling like he does, always seen never in the personality, but in the looks.

            A yellow jacket flashed by him and knocked him down.

            “Hey watch it!” Keiji yelled. The boy in the yellow Jacket looked at him with apologetic face, “I’m sorry, I didn’t see you.”

            “No, obviously no one does.” He gets up and the boy in yellow Jacket looked hurt. He never meant to bump into him, he watched Keiji walked away, readjusting his hood to completely hide his face. He wondered why he was like this. He walked away from the spot after Keiji disappeared from the view.


            Keiji sat down on his favorite café sipping the tea as he watched people bustle by. He sees the same boy in Yellow Jacket walk by. The boy was struck hard in the chest. Keiji jolted up and ran out. The boy was siting up, holding his chest. Keiji helped him up.

            “I’m sorry… I didn’t…” The boy noticed that it wasn’t his attacker that was holding him, but the boy earlier today.

            “you’re hurt.”

            “I’ve always been hurt. It’s not like anyone cares.”

            Keiji looked up at him with knowledge that he too was troubled.

            Keiji led him into the Café and offered to buy him a tea. As they sat down, the boy looking gloomy, sipped his tea.

            “I’m sorry about earlier.” Keiji confessed.

            “I’m really sorry too, the thing is, I’ve lost part of my sight, so I’m sort of blind, but not entirely. Some guys just seems to push me around. They just think being blind means I’m weak.”

            “I didn’t know that.” Keiji choked. The boy looked up and can see the boy was crying.

            “well, why you crying? I didn’t expect this would worth much sympathy.”

            “Not that, it’s just… People never notices me as a person. “

            “Why? You’re not blind. But… was the reason was because you hide your face?”


            “But you’re not bad looking, I mean, you look ok.”

Keiji looked at him, “My name is Samamaru Keiji.” The boy feebly smiled at him as Keiji sipped his tea.

            “I’m Takamasu Ren.”

            Keiji feebly smiled too. They began sipping their tea peacefully and they soon departed on their way.


            The next Day came and it was raining. Keiji felt some lightness as he walked out the door. He thinks maybe he lost some weight or perhaps he doesn’t feel heavily depressed. As he head out, the world seems to be gloomy with all the rain. He hid his face to shield from the rain. Ren was seen running towards him with a book bag over his head.

            “Ah, So wet and cold!” He complained. Keiji spoke, “Morning Ren.”

            “Ah Keiji right? I’m just heading on home.”

            “Ah ok, well…”

            “I gotta go, don’t wanna be late.” He bowed to him apologetically and left.

            Keiji smiled as he watched him gone by. He went down to take the train to his school. It hasn’t change much, the girls were still bustling around him and some guys were giving Keiji death threats. One boy actually tried to beat him up, ended up being beaten by Keiji.

            Keiji kicked upward in his chin and struck his chest with an open palm and did a sweep kick.

            “There, wanna lose some of those teeth of yours?”

            The beaten boy skittered away looking ashamed. This made the girls get more wilder. He went to talk to the guidance counselor about transferring. He couldn’t take it with these people. He wants to go to all boys school to get away from the girls.

            “Girls are the least of your worries young Keiji, it’s not gonna be very simple as that sounds.” The guidance counselor spoke.


             Keiji went down to the complex and was greeted by Ren again. Ren was looking a bit worried. Keiji allowed him to stay for the night.

            “I have just had it with the school, I just think they aren’t worth the effort.” Ren spoke as Keiji gave him some tea. Keiji spoke to him about his school and the bustling crowd of screaming girls.

            “Wow, you really hate being the heart throb type?”

            “Heart throb? If you want to put it that way, yes I hated that.”

            “You’re nice Keiji, and you seem to care.”

            Keiji looked surprised. He was actually being seen on the inside by someone at last.

            “I was actually envious of people who don’t have frigging girls attacking them. I can just picture them girls having all the guys in their poster. I feel sorry for them.”

            “The guys in the posters?”

            “Yeah. Imagine, all day oogling at you like some tastiest Ramen anyone can make.”

            Ren giggled, “I like Ramen.”

            Keiji smiled, “Yeah so do i. Well, I can make us some though.”

            “Ah that would be nice.”

            A couple of minutes has past and the boys began to eat their ramen. Ren told his tale of being lost in the city three times, being brought back home by the kind police officer. Keiji shared his story of the dance prom. Ren laughed as he spoke about the girls yammering about hotness and the sex and such. He never did see any girls who likes someone of personality, Which was why he wanted to transfer to another school.

            “No matter who we are, all of us gets down on our luck with things. Me partially blind, you sexy heart throb.”

            Keiji blushed, “Well, I digress, I always wanted to go to other countries. It would be nice.”

            “Ah you’re an explorer eh?”

            “I inherited it by my grandfather. He always goes off into other countries. I envy him.”

            So the boys swapped tales about their lives and their interests and hobbies and so forth. Yet, Keiji and Ren both became very good friends. When they begin to go to sleep, they both dreamed a dream that should be embraced.

Saturday, September 22, 2012

Rupert Everett thinks gay parents are worse than anything.

So apparently this Rupert fellow, who is gay, believes that there is nothing worse than having gay dads. Obviously he never met any gay dads, or he would have changed a different tune. When i have read what he said, i came to think, "Is he this stupid!?"

What can be worse than two gay dads? Oh i'll tell you. In fact, a parent's sexuality has no affect on their children's character. But let's reveal what can be worse than having two gay dads.

1) You could be an orphan in an orphanage; unwanted and unloved, waiting for a family to adopt you and give you a home. There could be a chance you would never be adopted and probably die unwanted.

2) You could be physically, sexually, emotionally, or psychologically abused. This unfortunately is very common in heterosexual households. There are reports of heterosexual parents who abused their children.

3) You could be an atheist or an LGBT. Either one of those things can get you disowned by your parents, get you forced into some reparative therapy or something like that, some parents might even kill you. If you could ever be lucky to have a loving parent(s) who accepts you as you are, then you'll be alright.

4) You could be malnourished, abandoned, neglected, or even forced to do labor work around the house like a slave.

5) You could be born to a family who can't understand your disabilities and treats you worse than those without disabilities.

6) You can be born to a huge number of family and be forever "forgotten" that you exist.

7) You could be forced into sex slavery at a young age, or be forced into other slavery so you can send money home to your family.

8) You could be the kid who lost a parent and have to raise your grief strickened parent and possibly your siblings.

9) You can be a kid of divorced parents.

10) Your parents could be leaving you all alone while they can do whatever they wanted to do, leaving you to fend for yourself.

11) Some parents could brainwash your mind into believing things that can be more damaging to you and others.

12) You could be one of the kids who were on the ground dying while your parents pray. No prayer has ever saved any of the kids that were dying.

13) you could be in a truamatizing, nightmarish life!

14) You could be in the family who were all starving to death and struggle to survive without much food or water and with nothing to help you.

There's a lot more where that came from.

So  Rupert, the next time you think about what can be worse for kids, read this.

Friday, September 21, 2012

Religious right’s logic on marriage:

Religious right’s logic on marriage:


Religion invented marriage + Sanctified by God + marriage is between one man and one woman = Natural


Homosexuals + Nature = not natural


1,500 species with homosexuality + nature = natural


No species have any religion or marriage (except humans) + Nature = not natural


Marriage + nature = not natural!


Ergo, Religion and marriage isn’t natural, but homosexuality is.


Marriage exists in many countries, practiced in many different beliefs and cultures, and most aren’t Christians. Marriage also existed long before Christianity existed, thus not a Christian institution and it’s not sanctified by a Christian God.


Homosexuality can be observed and studied in nature and homosexuality in exists in many species including homo sapiens aka human beings. Homosexuality is in fact, natural and part of nature. Procreation, which was their argument, makes no importance in nature. Which it helps keep species alive, there are children who aren’t sexually active, there are elderlies that are no longer able to bear children, there are people who are sterile, there are people who choose not to have children, there are those who choose celibacy, and more. All those are still part of nature. Also, we do not get to define what part of nature is, what’s natural or what’s normal. In fact, the “unnatural” stuff would have to be anything manmade. Think about it for a second. The religious right wings and homophobe’s logic is warped.

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Chic-Fil-A poem. A change of heart?

Had a change of heart


Had enough of the fight


Oh my, oh my

Has chic-fil-a had a change of heart?

Oh my, oh my

Or has Chic-Fil-A want to step out of their crap?

Oh my, oh my

What ever does this mean?


What does this mean now?

Did Chic-Fil-A see the error of their ways

Or did they step out of their hate

Yet think gays are bad?


Oh my, oh my

What did the antigay groups think?

Oh my, oh my

Did they lose their great contributer?

Oh my, oh my

I hope other contributors quit donating too


I now see Tony Perkin’s face

The chic-fil-a no longer hates too

I see Bryan Fischer pulling his hair

Now the chicken tastes pretty good

Brian Brown is pouting like a baby

Even waffle fries can’t fix that


Oh my, oh my

Is it safe to eat there now?

Oh my, oh my

Only time can tell

Oh my, oh my

I’m not trusting until I see more proof!


Oh Dan Cathy, I gotta ask

Is it because you have a change of heart

Or did you get tired of slinging hate?

Either way I’m not eating there

Not until you hug a gay today

Not until you understand us all!


Oh my, oh my

Anti-gay protestors are protesting still

Oh my, oh my,

It was not about their freedom of speech

Oh my, oh my

It was the fact they can’t stand love.


Goodbye, goodday

Chic-Fil-A I still won’t eat you

You may no longer donate

You might even add sexuality to the ENDA

But I can still smell some hate there


Oh my, oh my

I hope it’s a change of heart

Oh my, oh my,

I hope all this is true!

Oh my, oh my

I hope Dan Cathy wears a skirt as punishment

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

my feelings about mitt Romney and being poor.

My name is Tim and I’m a poor, part-time courtesy clerk who works at a Kroger company. I’m also 30 years old who lives in my grandpa’s house. I pay him rent, I buy my own food, and I have small amount of possessions and very little money. I have read that Mitt Romney does not care about poor people and thinks that we’re freeloaders or lazy never-do-wells, or someone who takes money from the government. I’m none of that. I am a hard worker, I don’t sit on my ass all day, I pay my rent, I do things to keep surviving, and I help people however I can. I’m being told that Mitt Romney may help get us jobs. I do not agree because Mitt Romney only cares about himself.

I cannot live on my own because apartments are very expensive and there isn’t a many apartments around either. I cannot go to college because it’s too far away. I don’t own a car because they are expensive. I do not wish to get a loan nor do I wish to be in debt. I wish to take care of myself, but it’s difficult when you’re in a small town where businesses are few and distant, where apartments are extremely sparse, and no college around. I cannot get into online classes because I have to pay for the textbooks I cannot afford. No matter how hard I tried to work with the financial aid, getting the textbooks, or balancing my budget, it fell apart few times. If I had a full time job, with a decently fair income, I may be able to pay for online classes, but I cannot. My job refuses to give me a fulltime, there is no other job hiring. Even if there are other jobs hiring, they’re too far away. My only transportation is walking. I had had a bike, but it got stolen. I cannot rely on a ride from anyone.

I can not get on SSI or DES. I was told I make too much money, but I get in average 700 to 800 a month. Most apartments anywhere in my area is 500 and above. 500 plus food plus bills would be well over the amount I get per month. I don’t get guarantee I would get even 600 a month. Sometimes I work 25 hours per week. Sometimes I would get 29, 30, 19 hours per week, and sometimes 35. I had once worked only 8 hours per week or even four hours per week. I also cannot get on medical insurance for any medication I may need. Arizona refuses me medical insurance because I don’t have children.

I’m a single man, there is no woman who even notices me, and I don’t want to have children of my own, especially in my current state. Even if I do want children, I don’t want to have them in a state where they may be starving or malnourished. I don’t want to rely on WIC or any government welfares. I don’t want to struggle with financial problems or put my child through poverty. If I were to have a child, I want to have a child who will have plenty to eat, to have a home ensured that it won’t be taken away and we would have to live in a box, or even wonder when I would have enough to put food on the table. No child should ever have to go through with that! Sadly, there are millions who do. Also, I’m not straight, but Bi and I strongly believe that no one should have to be denied medical insurance for any reason, especially for the lack of children.

I get accused of being selfish, of being a freeloader, or living off welfare or off my parents, or that I think this is all about me. I’m none of that. I struggle to survive on my own. I want to live on my own, not be dependent on anyone. I want to be independent, I want to move forward, and I want to live. We all do! This isn’t about me, this is about all who suffer poverty too.

I don’t desire wealth, I don’t desire expensive gadgets, I don’t desire a fancy car or a fancy house. You know what I desire? To live, to travel, to have a partner, and to not live in poverty.

Saturday, August 25, 2012

Adoptions and gay families

Adoptions and gay families


I was just reading Bryan’s blog about the 10 kids and 2 dads.  I hadn’t watched the show, I don’t think I have OWN channel, and I don’t usually watch TV anymore. He has said this; there is Michelle who sometimes helps the two dads. Often whenever there is something to be discussed, Michelle was called in to help.

Now, I get what Bryan is saying; why Michelle? Why can’t the show focus on the two guys who should be doing the discussion on what’s best for their kids? Is it that they think that children NEED a mommy figure? I really don’t get those people. If you’re going to do a show about two dads raising kids, especially many kids, you will need to show them as they are, not someone who needs to rely on an opposite sex person as if they’re incapable of handling things themselves. It makes the dads sound unhelpful and incompetent.

I don’t know what was really going on with the family off camera, but I rather we have the facts. I don’t trust television; they can warp things to their own liking. Now, I have no problem with the idea of having someone help out once in a while, it can be a good thing, but it’s important to show the two dads talking about issues that needed to be discussed together otherwise, you’re just making them look like unfit fathers.

It is great to see same-sex families on TV, there should be more and they should be shown as they are, not acted or altered for any reason. They should be shown as they are. But as I fear, Television cares more about ratings and money than facts. But I can be wrong and there are certain channels that see same-sex families as just any other families, with their own ups and downs and that these families are truly capable of raising healthy, stable kids. The real danger is the homophobia.


Bryan has made a point about the fact that some people look at large families as something bad. I live in a huge family, I have three brothers and three sisters. My brothers and my eldest sister have children of their own. The way I see it, families comes in all shapes and sizes, there are good and bad in all families. There is no good reason to look at a large group of families and judge them hastily. You can’t know a family by looking at them, no matter how big or small, or their gender or sexuality, or anything like that.


The saddest thing about adoptions is that those who look to adopt children, do not look for those who are disabled, minority, or even interesting to look at. I figured that with my hearing impairment, I wouldn’t be adopted by anyone. I say this because most people who adopt are too judgmental and picky. When it comes to Daniel and Selena, Jay and Bryan’s children, they are the minority and Daniel has Golden Har Syndrome. If it weren’t for Jay and Bryan, Daniel might not have been adopted, let alone along with his sister Selena.

This is said because some people who commented on Jay and Bryan’s video about why most kids that were adopted were black. Why did it matter if they were black? Shouldn’t it matter that they now have a family?

I think the way people treats adoption, is the same way they treat pet adoptions; choosing the most perfect, adorable one that may be their own ethnic. To me that is cruel and unloving. I would like those people to ask themselves if they were in an orphanage with different skin color, disability, and unwanted, how would they feel?


Now, there is also gay couples who look to adopt and yet are treated like they’re inferior or a danger to kids. This the 21st century and yet people still thinks like those in the 60’s, “gays are pedophiles!” “gays are recruiting kids!” and all that bullcrap.

Why are we still going on the same way as it had been in the 60’s? Hadn’t we all got passed that? Evidently not. I have made most post before about families and that gay couple are just like any other couples and that gays who choose to adopt are simply choosing to be parents like any other straights who chose to be parents. They want to raise a family, give a home to an unwanted kid and give them love, security, stable and healthy life.

Now, some people actually talk about abuses and neglect, but when it comes to a gay couple adopting, they’re against it simply because they’re gay and smear them with “pedophilia” or “abusive parent.”

I find it sad that when people who actually abuse kids or neglect them, they’re just being given a slap on the wrist and be on their way. But if a gay couple adopts a kid, it doesn’t matter how healthy, stable, or safe these kids are, it doesn’t matter that you help them with their homework, take them to soccer practice, to dentist appointments, or to school. It doesn’t matter that you read them a bedtime story, took them to a theme park, or even give them a pet to care for. All that mattered to them was that you’re gay and they don’t want it. All because “children needs a mother and a father” and “gays are harmful to children!”

Why is it like that? Where’s the sense in all this?

Monday, August 20, 2012

Gay Family Values: The Family Research Council Shooting...A Little Pe...

Gay Family Values: The Family Research Council Shooting...A Little Pe...: OK...this has been the busiest week I have had in some time and this the first chance I have had to respond to the shooting that took pla...

Poor little Family Research Council... NOT!

Tony Perkins on Friday - "I am grateful that over two dozen homosexual activist organizations released a joint statement expressing concern for Leo (the guard who was shot) and condemning the attack, agreeing that such violence is unacceptable. I would ask them to take the next appropriate step and call on the SPLC to end the words and actions which foster the environment that breeds brutality like we saw on Wednesday morning. I also ask any who repeat SPLC's false "hate group" label to stop."

ME: Actually Tony, you ARE a hate group. You spread lies and you call homosexuals pedophiles. You never had the decency to do your homework on facts. You are pretty much not interested in reality, you're intertested in making up claims, using double standards, and using slippery slope arguments. We will not stop calling you a hate group because you are a hate group. Tony, how about this; why don't you stop being so closed minded and ignorant of facts around you, and start getting to know LGBT people. I bet you won't. I'll bet you'll just cover your ears and scream out all sorts of lies to dehumanize LGBT people. You're not interested in facts, you're just a horrible closet case bigot who prefer lies and hate.

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Bryan fischer wants gay sex photos!

This is rich. This is really rich. I’m laughing my head off at this. Bryan Fiste.. ah Fischer want photos of consequences of after gay sex. Really Fischer? Really?

Ok Mr. Fischer, allow me to make this perfectly clear; homosexuality is not about sexual activity and the activity between two men are no different from activities between a man and a woman. Really, it is true.

Let me clue you in on this. What gay people do is simply the same as any straight people do;

Cuddle up afterwards

Take a shower afterwards

Sleep together

Make breakfast in the morning

Et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

That is not any different from straight people. Mr. Fischer, what exactly are you trying to find here? Full-blown AIDs? Mangled body of young boys? Erupted anus?  Or any other horrible stuff you fantasize about?

Here’s something you should know Fischer. There are many heterosexual couples, mostly women, who get abused. There are girls who are sexually assaulted, raped, abused physically, and some women were bloody and broken. If we have to focus on the trauma of relationships, especially after sex, then maybe we should look at straight people.

Fischer, I don’t know why you are so obsessed over homosexuality and gay sex. But it’s very clear to me you’re in a closet. Your obsession is very clear to me; you’re a gay man who is afraid to come out. Mr. Fischer, please devote your time focusing on your own life and leave people alone.

You will not find homosexual couples any different from heterosexual couples. To do so would be a double standard.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Shooting at FRC? What's this world coming to?

First and foremost, I am very upset that this happened. What this man did was inexcusable. I would never agree with  FRC, Or do I even care what they have to say. But to go over there and shoot someone because you disagree with their anti-gay stance is not the way to improve equality. That will only hurt us. Now that FRC will say, "SEE! SEE! This is what these gays will do! They'll kill us because they don't like what we say!"

Dear Family Research Center,

I don't feel sorry for you, but what that man did was inexcusable as well. I personally disagree with your stance on LGBT individuals, but i won't do anything to you. I would however debunk your lies and prove to people facts whatever you say against LGBT people.

I know that you like to demonize us and treat us like we're the bad guys. What that shooter did was his own intention, this has nothing to do with us because we do not approve of this action. You will not see us do the same as he did, so don't try and make up a lie that we as LGBT individuals will do harm.

You do have every right to believe whatever you want to believe, and say whatever you want. That doesn't mean however that you're above criticism or that no one should debunk what you said. Your stance on LGBT individuals, families, marriage, and rights is bad.

Dear Floyd Kerkins,

What you did is bad. Your action isn't helping, but it does more damage to us and sets us back. You should know better than to use violence on them. Yes they're Anti-gay and their stance is bigoted as they come, but using violence only makes things worse. We don't use violence to fight for equality. Martin Luther King Jr didn't use violence to fight for the rights of African Americans. We need to resort to peaceful tactics and debunking lies they say and show the world who we are. By using violence, you're making FRC think we've organized this attack and that this is how LGBT people are. You're only proving them right.

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

there's that "gay = pedophile" lie again!

Thanks to Alvin, I found this blog about little Victoria. *Sigh* Such a lying little bigot.

Victoria: Suddenly, the gym CNN is blasting a story of how a homosexual man is helping other homosexuals adopt children. He speaks about the personal, passionate sacrifice of his time for this cause as if he were Mother Theresa. I’m appalled. Homosexuals-adopting-children is child abuse. No, it’s pedophilia and sexual molestation. Teaching a young mind, a clean slate, an innocent soul that homosexuality is a natural, normal and moral lifestyle is evil. How is gay adoption different from the recently jailed Penn State Jerry Sandusky, child molester case?

There’s that “Gays = pedophilia” lie again. Victoria has absolutely no idea what she’s talking about. First off, gays and lesbians who adopt children want to be parents. Second off, the pedophiles that abuse children are often found in heterosexual households. Little Victoria clearly didn’t do her homework as is resorting to lying and spreading scare tactics.

Victoria, if you’re going to be concerned about the safety and welfare of children, then I suggest you look at the people of all sexuality, race, religion, and learn for yourself that sex abuse and pedophilia happens everywhere regardless. A person’s sexuality does not equal pedophilia.

There are children raised on heterosexual households that have been abused physically, mentally, emotionally, sexually, and more. Some neglected them, some have abandoned them or put them in hazardous situations. Gay people who adopts children does not mean they will abuse them.

I know a gay family who took care of their adopted kids. Why don’t you ask them, get to know them, and quit trying to make stuff up about a family you don’t even know?

You’re not concerned about the children; you’re only spouting lies and misrepresentation about people you don’t even know. You generalize and presume that what someone’s sexuality is means they’re somehow a threat or that they would abuse children. This is no different than thinking that black parents adopting white kids would abuse them.

Again, I suggest you do your research instead of making up stuff. Look to the facts and statistics of people who abused their children. The highest number of household abuses comes from heterosexual homes.

“Argument #3: Gay parents molest their children.

The research has long demonstrated that there is simply no connection between homosexuality and pedophilia and thus, no basis for this terrible myth. Indeed, the research shows that people who are pedophiles often have no sexual interest in adults, male or female.”

Unless you think they’re lying, how about providing facts instead of making things up?

Dear Victoria, I hope you will do your homework next time because you’re wrong and I have evidence to back them up.

Sincerely, Tim the skeptic, Bisexual and Atheist.

P.S. Did not your bible say, “Thou shall not bear false witness?”



Monday, August 13, 2012

10% or not 10%? That is the question!

I do not know how many LGBT people there is in the world. Some think that it is 2%. Some people think it’s 10%. If I had to make a guess, I would think the answer is 30% if not more. I don’t think I’m right, but I don’t think we can just calculate how many people there is when they have been badly discriminated against. My reason is this; sexuality is fluid, not easily cut into groups.

We cannot say that this group is straight and this group is gay, because it’s not really that simple as it looks. If we have to find all 7 billion people, ask them their sexuality, there is going to be people who may say they are pansexual, bisexual, asexual, transgender, gay, lesbian, heterosexual, and more. But not all 7 billion people will tell you their sexuality, so it’s not like we’re going to find an accurate answer.

Some people have done a survey and have asked people to tell them their sexuality. The problem I find with this is that most people don’t tell you their sexuality or don’t even think about their sexuality. Some people don’t even consider labeling themselves or even think it’s any of their business. Also, if there wasn’t any discrimination towards LGBT people, if there was no lies or scare tactics made by homophobic people, if there was no restrictions of any rights to them, if their families accepts them and never tries to kill, disown, or force them into reparative therapy, if we accepted ourselves without fear or self-hate then we just might see the more accurate numbers of LGBT people. For them to say it’s 2% for example just shows just how bad it is.

It’s not that I don’t accept the idea that the statistic is low, it is that with homophobia all over the world where gays are murdered, restricted from rights, kicked from families, self-hatred or fear of the lies they were led to believe, it’s not a wonder they got a low percentage of people openly saying they’re gay.

Let’s suppose 1 in 10 people who are gay. With 7 billion people, the number of LGBT may be 700,000,000. That is by far a lot of people.

One thing for certain, it really doesn’t matter how many LGBT people there is in the world, what does matter is that we’re all human beings. From now on, let’s just not assume we know precisely how many there is, and just live our lives.

Thursday, August 9, 2012

Dear Hypothetical gay son/daughter

I've read the letter by a dad who disowned his gay son. It infuriates me whan this happens. So i decided to write a bit of my own letter to a hypothetical kid of my own.

Dear Hypothetical gay son/daughter

I write this to you to let you know that I love you no matter what. Your sexuality is not an issue to me. The important thing for a parent is to always love and accept their children. I accept and love you very much.

Never think I wouldn’t accept you as you are, or disown you, or treat you bad. Parents who do those are not parents and what they do is harmful. I want you to know that I accept you as you are. I will never disown you or treat you bad.

When you are born, I never think about, “How I want you to be” but “who you may be.” I don’t want to demand grandchildren from you, I don’t want to tell you to marry someone of the different gender. To do so is never a good sign of parenting. As a dad, I expect only three things from you; be good to others as well as yourself, take responsibilities, and make your decisions in life.

Saturday, August 4, 2012